No-nap Pitcher x2


My friend Ronda had made a trip to Texas to see her niece. As part of the deal we got to see her for a night and take her to the airport. We met SNBNA for Mexican Sunday night as per our usual habit. And the next morning we a little time to play before taking John to school, his first day. Ronda was holding the planet so that Buzz could orbit it on his rocket ship.

Right after squeezing in a library book, we left for school. John walked in like he owned the place. No apprehension whatsoever. Except that I called out to tell him good-bye, he might not have even known that I was gone. Today was no different.

On our way to airport Ronda and I stopped to do some shopping for some chile's that she hasn't found in Ohio yet. Oh, and she needed her Whataburger fix. I totally understand that, as I made a regular habit of eating there when I didn't live near one. Then it was off to the airport. The visit was all too short, but just as always, so meaningful to me to be in the same room with her. I'm grateful that she came to see us.

The only thing remarkable about the last two afternoons has been the fact that John has not napped either day. I can guess why he didn't nap Monday. But today is a mystery. Monday after I picked him up, we grabbed some lunch and then went to the grocery, getting home right about 200p - nap time. I gave him a few minutes, but then rushed him off to his room. This did not sit well. He wanted to play. So after about an hour of crying / whimpering, I gave up and turned on the TV. I had things I needed to do - without his presence by my side. Today, we ate lunch at home and played and he was lounging around a bit. At normal time, we went to his room. After I left him, it was mostly quiet, but I heard noises. He was not asleep. And after about 45 minutes, the crying started. Once again I relented. But I was frustrated. This new school year schedule, while different, was going to afford me time in the afternoons during nap. But I haven't seen it yet. I hope this doesn't last. The bright side is that he's sleeping well at night.

-EBP-

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Meet the Teacher

Today we went to school. It was Meet the Teacher day. Only one of his was there today, Ms. Diane. His other teacher is Ms. Thai, who was not there today due to an appointment. We had a little meltdown right before we left the house. John didn't get his way and then decided he didn't want to go to school. Thankfully, that changed when we turned into the parking lot. John got excited and I had to remind him not to run, since the last time we were there he'd gotten a nasty bruise from his running and subsequent tripping. Once we got to his classroom, he was a bit apprehensive, but with blankie in hand (a stopgap measure from the meltdown), we worked through it. His teacher knew exactly who he was, having seen him on the playground last year. We said hello and that was that. "Can you hold my blankie, Mommy?" and he was off to explore the room. I visited with the teacher and then was off to my orientation, retrieving John when I was done.

I think he's going to really enjoy school again this year. And I know I'm looking forward to the time as well. He's just so much happier when he's with other kids and busy! About half the kids were in his class last year. Again, he's one of the youngest in the class. It's pre-school, so I think they'll expect more out of him. Hopefully that will translate to here at home. It's only three hours, although on certain days I may choose to let him stay and nap, if I have some obligations. So most days we'll eat and have a nap here at home. This schedule will force me to get organized when it comes to maximizing my time "off". He's going Monday, Tuesday, Thursday. On Wednesday, we'll go back to the school for my Bible Study. And we'll be relaxing on Fridays. And Monday's when the craziness all begins!

One of John's favorite people is Wanda, the receptionist at the church where his school is at. He always looks for her when we get there and always makes a run for her when we are on our way, always resulting in a big hug. You might notice the dribbles on John's shirt. He's learning to use the water fountain at school.

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Wimberley 2010 Part 2

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Thursday morning, instead of going to the river, the three of us went to the pool.  I had missed JHP’s fun at the pool the evening before.  So I made sure to take the camera to capture his total enjoyment – this time with Floaties. He could not get enough of jumping in the pool.

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I’d brought my goggles with us, thinking that John would like them.  Well, he loved them!  So he wore them a lot in the pool.

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Sometime during the week, Papa Jim ran to the dollar store and got a bug house for each of the kids.  So more bug hunts commenced.  John loved hunting and “catching” rocks and flowers with what he called his “cappacatcher” (John’s made up word), the tool that looked like a pair of pliers with  cups on the end.  Occasionally, Daddy would catch a bug for him.  But John must be a budding environmentalist.  Most of the time he insisted on “catch & release” after some inspection.

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After dinner that night we took the requisite trip to “town'”, Pioneer Town, for some ice cream at the parlor.  John didn’t want to hold hands, until Uncle Jimmy offered.

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John and June had no problem deciding what ice cream they were going to have.  The parlor had Blue Bell ice cream and they make a flavor called Krazy Kolors.  It’s vanilla ice cream with lots of food coloring.  Bright blue, red, and yellow.  If there was one night John did not go to bed at a decent hour, it was this night.  I suspect the sugar and food coloring was the culprit.

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After ice cream, we strolled through the arcade to play a little.  Then as we headed home we stopped at a small park to burn off some sugar.  One of my favorite photos from the stop was this one of the three “kids” driving.  Love Jimmy’s face!

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On Friday, I finally took a camera to the river.  And I took a total of five or so.  Gee, I know it’s hard to believe.  But I wanted to get into the river.  It was hot.

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I like this one.  It’s just my two boys.  No one else. 

What didn’t I capture while we were on the river?  I didn’t capture the long kayak trips we took.  John N. loves to kayak and spent lots of time in the kayak.  And JHP took several trips in the kayak, enjoying each one.  The rest of the time we just floated and looked for rocks in the water.  Oh, and enjoyed being with family!

Saturday, we packed and loaded up the van.  It was much easier the second time.  The load was lighter.  After a week of extended family, we three opted to enjoy a quiet lunch and a trip to a quaint toy store before heading out of town.  The trip home was uneventful and napless for John, just as the trip out had been.

So many more photos are on the WebAlbums incase you haven't already discovered them.

-EBP-

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Wimberley 2010

I figured I’d better get this post up before all my thoughts were lost.  And I’ll warn you, this is likely to be an extremely long post.  It’s been exactly a month since we travelled to Wimberley and stayed with my family at the 7A Resort.  It’s not a resort in what I consider the normal sense  of the word, but it was a clean, dry place to stay that had air conditioning and running water, located near on the Blanco river.  It has some other things to do there, like swim in the pool and explore the grounds of Pioneer Town. 

We had two cabins.  We stayed all week (minus one night) and so did Jimmy Jane and June.  Together, we occupied one cabin.  Nana and Papa Jim stayed in the other cabin.  Uncle Sean and Bella stayed a couple of nights and then went home, freeing up space for Aunt Heather, John Wellman, and Baby Jude (eventually Uncle Jeff came too) to stay for the remainder of week.

The absolute best part about the trip was the ABSENCE of mosquitoes.  I was fully prepared with lots of OFF, but we never even got it out.  When we left Houston, we’d been in the midst of the worst mosquito season I’d seen in a long while.  It was so bad you could get bit just getting in and out of the car in mid-day.  So, to not have to worry about it was fabulous!  This resulted in lots and lots of time outside, unless the heat required a brief respite in the AC.

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Sunday evening found us settled in and off in search of bugs.  Sean had found a bug house at the dollar store and this became a grand pastime for the week, outside of water activities.  Jane lead the group off  that evening in search of good bugs.  They saw lots of grasshoppers and butterflies.  But the biggest bug we saw all week was this one.

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No kidding, this lady (why do I always think of them as girls?) was about 4 inches tip to tip.  She had built her web on the front side of the resort sign that the kids are looking under in the photo above.  She wasn’t the easiest to photograph as the “front” side of her web was facing the sign.  She so reminded me of the large photo I have on my wall that Dad took of the Goliad spider.  Needless to say, she wasn’t “collected” for viewing.

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On Monday morning, after a lazy breakfast we got up and went to the “reever” as JHP called it, complete with scrunched up nose.  Aside from just hanging out in the water, we had some kayaks to enjoy.  John was definitely timid at first.  He wore a life jacket that we’d purchased.  But alone, it didn’t give him enough stability to make him comfortable in the water.  We’d also brought some Floaties and those made all the difference.  They made him stable and allowed him to sit mostly unassisted on the rocks in the river.  By the end of the morning, he was comfortable enough to paddle short distances from person to person.

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Monday’s evening entertainment involved lots and lots of bubbles.  The kids all enjoyed using the variety of bubble wands that I’d brought.  Even the adults got into the act, allowing the kids to pop bubbles.

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On Tuesday, the three of us took a little road trip.  While planning for our trip, it occurred to us that John’s cousin lived an easy day trip’s distance from Wimberley.  So, I got to meet Mary-Anne for the first time.  She’s a blogger, too.  So it was so nice to hear her voice and meet her, although it seemed as if I’d already knew her “voice” from her writing.  She’s married to Jeremiah, who is currently serving our country overseas.  They have one little boy named Ethan who just turned two last week, and a little girl due to arrive any day now.  I always find it interesting to see how John interacts with kids his own age or younger.  They got along pretty well, although I’m not sure John liked Ethan snagging some of his snacks without asking.

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But by the end of our time together, John was ready to say goodbye and gave Ethan a big hug, which unfortunately ended up on the ground with a bumped head for John.  We are all looking forward to seeing them again soon and meeting the newest member of the family.

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The cabin had two rooms and a bathroom.  We slept in the back room that had a double bed and a twin. Jane had brought John a little cot to sleep on, but we opted to try him in the twin bed all by himself.  He only fell out of the bed once all week, which I thought was pretty good.  He was the first to go to bed each night and actually did really well about staying in his bed.  Of course, we threatened him with a spanking should he had gotten out.  And it worked.  (Too bad it didn’t continue to work once we converted him bed here at home, but you’ve already heard that story…)  His bed was right near the window and although he didn’t get out of bed, he did make use of the window to keep an eye on us.  On this night he was caught on camera resting his head on the window sill.  And then he caught me taking his picture.  The other picture I should have caught was John standing up in the window sill.  We didn’t tolerate this (for safety reasons), but that didn’t stop him from trying it on numerous occasions.

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The Wellmans showed up on Wednesday.  And of course, my brother couldn’t keep his hands off Baby Jude.  Such a big guy with a squishy heart for babies!  Of course, I could resist taking pictures of Jude.  I admit, I have a problem.  Can’t. Stop. Taking. Photos. Of. Babies.

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I’m not sure what we did Wednesday morning.  I don’t think we went to the river.  I do know that it rained on Wednesday afternoon.  So Jimmy, Jane and I ran into San Marcos to visit the outlet malls.  While we were gone, the group went  to the pool, where John had tons of fun.  We’d brought some water guns and he learned exactly how to use them.  And during this pool visit that John became fearless in the water.  he was routinely jumping from the side of the pool into Daddy’s arms.  It was only on inspection of my mom’s photos did I discover he had NO flotation device whatsoever!  Thankfully, John hasn’t decided that he doesn’t need some kind of flotation device. 

Well, I’ve made it through Wednesday evening.  I think I’ll save the rest of our trip for tomorrow’s post!

-EBP-

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Being 2 1/2

Our new table got delivered before lunch today. John really likes the table and as soon as I got his chair hooked up, he sat down and waited. Quite unusual, since lately he wants to pull a chair up to the counter and watch me make his lunch. So I got his lunch made and served it. Then I figured I better take a photo. It's always better to have a face in it, right? Anyway it's 48 inches round with 4 chairs, made of oak. You can't tell from the photos, but it looks really good in the space. I'm happy with out decision to go with a round table.

While John was playing around this afternoon, I got the camera out to take some photos. I've kind of been lax about doing this lately. Mostly, it's because I've gotten out of the habit of blogging everyday (I know I still owe a vacation wrap up post). And because I've been really busy as of late working on some photos I've taken for friends. And because it's been boring (or unbelievably frustrating - I hate it when all I seem to do is complain) around here. I caught some neat photos of John standing in the front window. I think this one is my favorite. I've always had a thing for photos with side lighting.


We've had a good period as of late. John's been listening a lot better. There was a period not too long ago where we seemed to be spanking him all the time, but we've kinda put the spanking on the back burner and life has improved. We started using Time-Outs again and they seem to be a more effective deterrent. And since school will soon be back in session, it's probably good we re-instituted it. Another thing we use a lot is a countdown. John knows exactly what it means and will often be heard saying, "Don't count!" If we warn him that we plan to start counting, he will follow through on your request ASAP.

There's been no request for a big boy bed. So that's tabled indefinitely. He's getting better about cleaning up his toys himself. He's getting a little better about sharing. I think he's beginning to understand the concept. But there are definitely other things that he doesn't get and it's quite funny to hear him use words or phrases in the wrong way. Reasoning is only beginning to creep into our daily events.

I'd love to say he's become more adventurous in eating, but he's had to be coaxed into it. He'll eat fried chicken, only because he knows he usually gets fries with that. He'll eat raw spinach, leaving the stems behind, and raw carrots. He'll eat pasta and rice, both unadorned. We've coaxed him into tasting cooked broccoli, peas, and fish. Some days he seems much more receptive than others. It's amazing what the promise of dessert will do for his appetite.

He's always sung a lot. And he knows the words to some songs like Jesus Loves Me, The B-I-B-L-E, Wheels on the Bus, and the Itsy Bitsy Spider, but now he's picking up words from songs he hears on the CD's we listen to in the car, mostly Go Fish these days. He asks what the name of the song is and who sings it.

He's started to pretend play more on his own. Tonight he was in the bath tub introducing himself to someone ("Hello, my name is John Pitcher.") and last night he was offering me some coffee and a peanut butter sandwich. He finds creative ways to use things. As we were cleaning out the truck, Daddy brought in some old cell phone chargers. John found one and started to use it at a string trimmer, cutting his "yard". He definitely wants to play with us more these days. He insists at times. He can't wait until Daddy gets home so that he can play with him. And like most mothers I seem to have trouble stopping my "busy" day to play with John enough for his tastes.

Sometime I have a hard time believing he's two and half already. And then I have to remind myself he's ONLY two and half. So fun! We go to meet his new teachers on Friday. He'll be in a Pre-School class this year!

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The zoo

While we didn't make it out of the house when I wanted to, we did make it to the zoo early enough to enjoy a close-by parking space and lots of humidity, heat and absolutely no breeze. But my two companions took it in stride.

We even went into the petting area today. It was June's suggestion. I didn't suggest it on our previous trip because I figured John would be scared. I didn't say anything one way or the other today and let June lead the way. And wouldn't you know, John walked right in like he owned the place. No trepidation amongst these slow moving goats. Definitely surprised me!

And since we were on a roll and June wanted to ride the carousel, we gave it a try, too. Another success! The only time he seemed a bit nervous the whole day was when we went into the Lion tunnel, which was dark and quiet. He didn't like it at all but managed to make it out holding both my and June's hands.

We didn't cover the whole zoo today, but we got to most of it. We saw the baby elephant Baylor again (of course!). And while at the elephant exhibit I saw something unusual to me. An elephant was taking a dip in the pool, often being totally submerged, only his trunk above the waterline. It was fun sight to see! And we saw the bald eagle, one of John's favorites. In the aquarium we saw some unusual jellyfish that had what looked like frilly lace around the edges. Very interesting, even for me since jellyfish kind of wig me out (along with eels and octopus, both of which we saw today, too). The last of our adventure today was to take the train around Hermann Park. June had never been on it and was surprised at how the long the route was.

We ended up eating a late lunch, which set us up for a late nap. Seems to be a habit for our recent zoo trips. After our last trip to the zoo, No-Nap Pitcher visited. But today, after a good rocking by Cousin June, John did nap for a couple of hours. She said she wanted to rock John and I had my doubts that it wouldn't turn into a fidget-fest. But they made it work. This photo is so blurry, but it shows a moment of connection between the two of them. Cousins are the best! We were all so tired from the heat that I'm surprised we didn't all take a little snooze this afternoon!

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Free ride

Mouse update: John's mastered the mouse. You can effectively leave him alone at the computer and he'll take care of himself. I only need to get him on the site he wants and let him go. I have to be careful, though. He doesn't know the difference between ads and new games to play. I suspect I'll need to investigate parental control before too long. I never would have thought that an issue at two and half.

We have a house guest tonight! Cousin June came to stay the night with us and join us for some fun tomorrow. It's sort of a last hurrah before school starts for her next week. I can't believe she'll be starting Kindergarten. Time flies! It seems such a short while ago that she was clamoring to hold her new cousin, Baby John. And now they are playing together as equals. Well, almost. Notice that John's catching the free ride up there. He's supposed to be pushing. Instead, he's riding. And then he rides again, when June pushes. It kinda makes sense. John's feet still don't reach the pedals. But he has no excuse for not pushing June.

Jane was here for dinner, too. And since she commonly refers to June as June Bug, it didn't surprise me that John picked that right up. Oh, June Bug! Dinner was interesting. The kids sat next to one another. And it was like pulling teeth to keep John from acting so silly. This is normal, however. He's discovered that he's got a captive audience and uses it to his full advantage. But the silliness seemed escalated with two of them at the table. As kids do, they fed off of each other. Breakfast should be interesting.

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Out of the house

Date night at the Astros game! I took these with my camera phone. SNB came with us for a double. And the Astros actually won the game!

Don't look too closely at the one of me and hubby! Examination will reveal just how much work I need at using my camera phone for a self-portrait! Eek!

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And back again.

We converted the big boy bed back to a crib tonight. We were lulled into a false sense that John was ready for it. But after me nearly having a heart attack from John appearing (multiple times) after we'd "tucked" him in and him refusing to nap today or to even understand that he was supposed to STAY in bed, Daddy and I were done playing around. And when we told him he didn't even seem too concerned. Until bedtime.

Other than that, all I have to say about today is that it was probably the worst parenting day in recent memory. Even worse that last week when he threw 3 fits in three stores. I love my son, but do I have to like him on days like this? We all lost our cool and each deserved a time-out. Only JHP got one. The other parent needed to hang close to keep the first parent in check. So glad John's safely tucked in (and asleep at 755p) his crib. Tomorrow's another day. A better one, I hope.

-EBP-

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Sweaty


This is what a half hour of time outside this evening did to my son. And I thought it was kinda dry out! Poor dude sweats like there's no tomorrow! And he never complains. He just sucks down the water when he comes inside.

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Quick update

JHP was not standing by our bed this morning. He cried out like usual and Daddy went in to get him. We'll see how tomorrow is. I'm a heavier sleeper than Daddy is.

We made it to church today and I discovered that I'd missed it.

We found a new home for the old truck today. It's been good to us and hopefully it will be as good to it's new owners. We are now back to two vehicles. So much easier in the driveway...

I fixed yesterday's post. The photos were missing! An upload problem!

-EBP-

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John's big boy bed

Daddy and I worked this morning to convert John's crib to a toddler bed. He'd slept the whole week we were at the river in a twin bed and only fell out once. Surprisingly, we did not have to keep taking him back to his bed. But then he did have a window to look out and see us outside the cabin. I'll tell you more on that when I finally get to the posts about our vacation. We'd told John we'd get it converted soon after we got home. Of course it took us a whole week to get it done. Thankfully, John did not put up a fuss about sleeping in his crib.
With new tools in hand, JHP was quite anxious to help with the conversion. And once he saw the side off, he assumed it was ready for occupancy, even without the mattress. So we had to resort to TV diversion to complete the project in a timely and safe manner.

But once we were done, John was thrilled with the results. He can now get in and out of his bed on his own using his little step stool. He was so happy with his new bed, I wasn't sure he'd even go back to watching TV, instead choosing to hang out in his new place. But since he's two that didn't last long, especially when Daddy dragged out the vacuum, one of John's least favorite things in the house.

Nap time went just fine. John didn't get out of his bed even once. We'd told him on vacation that getting out of bed would result in a spanking and after reinforcing the idea today, we didn't even have to take him back to his room, which really surprised me. We did tell him that the only time he could get out was if the house was on fire, a fact that John used tonight at bedtime. John's taken to wasting time before bed sometimes. Tonight he told Daddy, "Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, come get me. The house is on fire!" He didn't go to sleep right away and we had to make several trips into his room, but once again he surprised me and didn't get out of his bed. We'll see how the morning goes. Will he just call for us like he always does or will we see a bright little face staring back at us when we open our eyes in the morning?



This boy been a bit gassy today and so we've talked alot about BM's and going potty, mostly becuase he's not quite sure the difference between a BM and gas yet. We are not potty training per se, but we take every opportunity to talk about it when the topic comes up. We've gone back to putting him on the potty before bath time, something we'd stopped because he'd basically told us he didn't need to go and wasn't peeing in the tub either. Tonight he'd already gotten into the tub and was playing when we heard a frantic, "Daddy, I gotta pooh-pooh!" So we plopped him on the seat and tried to calm him. I really think he might have had some gas or maybe he was just constipated. But he was agitated, so I went to get him a book to focus on while he relaxed enough to let things progress. He sat there for quite a while and then said he was done (with nothing really to show for it). So back in the bath he went. And then again he said he needed to go and wanted a book. At that, I figured we were dealing with a delay tactic. So we put him off until after the bath and after I refused to give him a book, he finally got down on his own. But he continued to whine. Somehow he'd gotten the idea that we were going to take the pooh-pooh out for him and he did not like that idea at all. Crazy! Finally after much reassurance, he was convinced that we were going to let him be after we put a diaper on him. Oh, I'm so looking forward to potty training! Not really...

I did put the photos up from our weeks vacation on the WebAlbums. I believe they show up most recent first so you might have to look back a few albums to find them. I'll be adding some more as I get them done. And hopefully tomorrow, I'll get started on the vacations posts.

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